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July 2006
   
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Vacation Tips for Eating Healthy and Staying Fit


We wait all year for vacation time and wonder if we can truly enjoy ourselves and still maintain reasonable eating patterns. Here are some tips that may help you stay on track:

1. Plan ahead. Decide ahead of time that you are committed to the cause of eating nutritiously.

2. Pack snacks. Take the time to pack some snacks that will give you energy and make you feel full. Some good choices would be dried fruit, nuts, pretzels, granola bars, and crackers with cheese or peanut butter. This will help with the in-between times when you are suddenly starving and wanting to reach for anything.

3. Don’t leave home hungry. Start your vacation off with a good healthy meal before you leave.

4. Hydrate yourself. Make sure you bring plenty of bottled water to help fill you and keep your energy level up.

5. Exercise wherever you are. Don’t skip out on your regular exercise just because you are on vacation. Figure out how to maintain your routine, or try a new type of exercise – as long as you make the time and stay active. This will increase your metabolism and help with any little slips you may have.

6. Prepare for action. Bring any necessary clothing for activities you may engage in to meet your exercise needs. If you are travelling to a mountain area, be sure to pack hiking boots and enjoy the variety of the workout.

7. Check out your options. As you get closer to your vacation spot, be sure to take notice of the food options along the way. Maybe you will see a sandwich and salad shop or a grocery store where you can pick up some good food. You will be less likely to run to the closest fast-food place if you are aware of other options nearby.

8. Adjust your attitude. Don’t view vacation as a free ticket to consume as much of anything you want. Try to stick to your healthy eating habits most of the time and allow for small treats that you might not be able to enjoy at home. In other words, if you decide that you can have one treat a day, make sure it’s worth it.

9. Concentrate on making memories. Focus on the parts of the vacation that will make it truly memorable for you, such as spending time with your family and friends or experiencing fun activities in a different place.

10. Finally, be good to yourself. If you get discouraged because you had a bad day nutritionally, don’t dwell on it or let it take away from your precious vacation time. Let it go and just decide to do better tomorrow.

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10 Easy Money-Saving Ideas


Looking for quick and easy ways to save money? Here are some simple steps you can take to save those hard-earned dollars:

1. Get cash for trash. Have a garage sale or participate in a community yard sale. You will make money and reduce clutter at the same time.

2. Go wireless. If you make a lot of long-distance calls and own a cell phone, sign up for a plan with free nights and weekend calling, and make all long-distance calls on the cell phone during the free periods.

3. Park the car. Use public transportation, or carpool with others. You will save on gas and tolls, and gain extra time to read, work, or socialize.

4. Shop used. Shop at consignment stores for slightly used clothes and furniture.

5. Create a home theater. Rent a video and make popcorn instead of going to the movies.

6. Carry out. Bring your lunch and/or coffee to work instead of buying out.

7. Take out. Choose take-out instead of dining out (saving on both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks and tips).

8. Bulk up. Buy in bulk from wholesale clubs for non-perishable items that you use frequently.

9. Go surfing. Check the Internet for the best online or store price.

10. Cut the cards. Use no more than one credit card, and pay it off in full each month if possible.

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Ask Dr. B: I Have No Reason To Be Depressed

Dear Dr. B.:
I have been very tired and unmotivated lately. I have a hard time getting out of bed, have no interest in doing anything, and get very irritable and short with my husband and kids. It's the same at work. I'm having a hard time concentrating and I'm finding that I just can't seem to get much done lately. My family is getting frustrated with me and I'm worried that I'm going to lose my job if I don't start being more productive. I just can't seem to shake this and it's getting worse. I talked to my friend and she said maybe I'm depressed, but I have nothing to be depressed about. I have a good husband, nice kids, friends, a beautiful house, and a job that pays decent money. Please help as I don't think there's anything wrong with me physically but I really feel like I'm going crazy and it's scaring me.

- Ann S.

Dear Ann;
It has to be confusing and very unsettling for you to be feeling so poorly with no identifiable cause. It is quite possible that your friend's diagnosis is correct. Not everyone realizes that depression can and often does appear without a clearly identifiable trigger. In fact, many capable, high-achieving people have encountered depression at the height of their careers. While psychological issues and life stress can certainly lead to depression, physical factors also can play a role as well. Depression can result from changes in brain chemistry. These changes may occur as a result of a genetic predisposition, or they may reflect many different physical causes, including thyroid problems, hormonal changes, medication side effects, substance abuse, and so on.

Depression is a highly treatable problem. Both psychotherapy and medication, and a combination of the two, have been found to be effective forms of treatment. Now is a good time for you to consult a qualified mental health professional, preferably one who specializes in depression, for assessment and treatment. The best way to find a mental health practitioner is to ask someone you know and trust for a recommendation. In cases such as yours, it is equally important to have a thorough evaluation by your primary care physician, in order to rule out medical problems and medication side effects.

Dr. Richard Bedrosian is a clinical psychologist, president and founder of MySelfHelp.com, Associate in Psychiatry at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, and author of “Treating Family of Origin Problems: A Cognitive Approach”.

Send your questions for Dr. B. to info@myselfhelp.com. You will remain anonymous if your question is printed in an upcoming newsletter. We regret that we cannot answer every question we receive.

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Calendar of Upcoming Events

Hope and Inspiration Eating Disorder Support Group
July 8, 10:00-11:00 a.m.
MEDA, 92 Pearl Street, Newton, MA

International Association of Eating Disorders Professionals (IAEDP) Annual Conference
July 13-16
Chicago, IL

National Eating Disorders Association Annual Conference
September 14-16
Bethesda, MD

Crisis Intervention Team (CIT) National Conference
September 25-27
Orlando, FL

Alternatives 2006 Conference
October 25-29
Portland, OR

16th Annual Renfrew Center Foundation Conference for Professionals
November 9-12
Philadelphia, PA

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Party Time? Avoiding Problems with Alcohol

If you plan to drink at a party or event, here are some tips to help keep you safe.

Plan ahead. Decide the maximum amount of drinks you will allow yourself to have at the beginning of the event and stick with it. Remember that the safest course of action is to limit yourself to one or two drinks.

Choose a reliable bartender. Try to be sure a sober and responsible person is making or pouring your drinks.

Give away the keys. If you plan to drink, give your keys to someone who promises to stay sober at the beginning of the evening.

Pace yourself. Sip drinks slowly, and drink water or other non-alcoholic beverages in between drinks.

Fill your stomach. Eat healthy foods to avoid an empty stomach.

Avoid salt. Salty foods will make you thirsty and want to drink more.

Be social. Engage in activities and conversations or hit the dance floor so you will be less apt to drink as quickly.

Don’t be fooled. Just because you feel sober does not mean that you are, and you cannot become sober by drinking coffee or taking a shower. Be sure you have a reliable and sober friend you can count on to keep you in check.

Alcohol and depression – a dangerous combination. Since alcohol acts as a depressant, even mildly depressed individuals should avoid drinking. This is even more important if you are taking medications, which could cause dangerous side effects when combined with medication.

Know your medications. Alcohol can be lethal when combined with certain drugs. Ask your pharmacist or doctor whether you can drink with the medications you are taking, and if so, what amount you can safely consume.

Be honest with yourself. Are you finding it hard to follow the guidelines above? If so, you may be developing a problem with alcohol. It may be time to review your drinking habits with a qualified mental health professional or a certified alcohol counselor.

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